Romancing the Depths

Many people turn their noses up at the notion of having a holiday for lovers, feeling they’re forced to focus on something that they’d rather do on their own schedule, when the notion strikes, later.

Does later come in your world?

I’ve been working with couples for over 30 years and there are many great changes afoot, a deeper loving is being discovered by those who are engaging more fully with the possibilities of conscious relationships.

Is this deep and rich loving arriving in your life?

For most the journey of authentic intimacy begins with a gnawing hunger for MORE. Whether people have been married for decades or dating for a couple of years I hear the same story; we rarely connect, our romance doesn’t carry the zing, the rush, pizzazz it did early on.

Most people don’t want to hear this, but with a great deal of compassion I will tell you that the zing you felt at the beginning, usually the first 3 months of dating, is a flim-flam concoction to begin with. It’s a big rush of hormonal projections and expectations crafted with unfulfilled needs from our childhood conditioning and the biological impulse to breed.

Sorry. And there is more.

Fortunately this level of delusional smoke screen is short-lived, the actual person begins to emerge from behind the dating mask. But unfortunately most folks will not look for a deeper path with the old flame, but will go out looking for that rush again, telling themselves that there is someone out there who WILL be able to maintain the rush for me. After all, isn’t that what love is?

Well, no and sort of...

There actually is a profound and resonant power that one experiences viscerally when we open to genuine intimacy in the midst of the energy of love. That first flush may actually be a tease, a hint about what is available when we evolve beyond our conditioning and allow our souls to commune.

People of all ages have recently begun seeking spirit-based relationships which cultivate this depth and coherence of deep connection. This is not some kind of an ideologically based, floaty script of a holy relationship.

No, this is an embodied, grounded, and expanding art form, an energetic expression of our inner self, our soul.

The energy of spirit flowing through us is deeply conscious, passionate, intense, uplifting and fully engaging. It rocks us, heart and soul. We are touched, seen, fully accepted and cherished. These experiences of inner communion, especially when shared with our Beloved, expand us and bring real richness and power into our lives. Sacred loving is an art that transforms us into our best possible selves. These resonances of deep loving naturally engender Wholeness, within ourselves and within everything in our local universe.

So, a day for celebrating lovers? Yes, please, the sooner the better; can we start now? Let me hold you; merge with me for a moment. Siiiigh… And also this now, come kiss me again. Again, now please. Mmmmph… Let me look into your eyes and breathe you into my heart, my soul, now honey. Aaaahhhh, thank you!!